LGBT discourse that frames homophobia as being the same as racism reinforces homophobia, racism, and sexism. Although sameness arguments may be effective in some instances, such arguments are not the optimal approach to an interracial dialogue on LGBT issues, especially if the participants in the conversation have not had an opportunity to build mutual respect and trust. In order to unify subordinated groups, we must reframe the discussion around superordinate goals.

At the societal level, advocates must come to see that we-LGBT people, black people, and those of us who live at the intersections thereof-do not have to be the same in order for social justice to call us together at a shared table built on Loving. We can then work across lines of difference to tackle racism, sexism, and homophobia; dismantle social systems that create tiered citizenry within our nation's democracy; and work to ensure that the powerful and privileged do not wield race, gender, and sexual identity as weapons of domination. It is at the junctures of shared needs and interests-the promise of achieved superordinate goals-where our collective future lives.